DateableRatings
Reply well and you rise.
Every member is rated on three things: how often you reply, how fully you reply, and the quality of your photos. The ratings decide where you sit in search. Members who answer promptly and properly sit on top. Members who ignore people or answer in one word sink to the bottom.
What we rate
Three scores, one place in the pile
Replies: 40%
The share of first messages you answer within 2 days. A polite "thank you, but I don't think we're a fit" counts. Silence counts against you.
Reply length: 30%
How full your messages are. Two words or fewer scores nothing. Forty words or more scores full marks. A question back and something about you is the easy way there.
Photos: 30%
A person reviews every photo. On approval they mark it from 1 to 5 for quality: your face clearly in view, good light, recent, no filters. Never for looks.
The details
Exactly how it works
- Scores cover the last 90 days, so a slow month is not forever.
- New members start in the middle of the pile, not the bottom. A score needs three messages or one marked photo before it counts.
- Verified members get a small lift on top.
- Only messages from established members count: accounts under 3 days old cannot lift or sink anyone.
- Blocking or reporting someone never costs you. Their messages drop out of your scores.
- Search shows top rated first. Anyone can switch to "Recently active" or "Newest".
- Your profile shows your reply record to others: how often you reply, and about how many words.
- Your photo mark and your place in the pile are shown only to you, on your home page and your profile, with what would lift you.
- Scores update after every message you send, every photo review, and once a day.
- Both sides are rated the same way. Generous or attractive, you rise by replying well.
Why we do it: a dating site works when people answer each other. Most sites let silence and one-word replies go unnoticed. Here they cost you, and good conversation is rewarded with the best place in search.