DateableHe sent me 20 pages on what he wants in a connection
A man I was seeing sent a 20-page document on what he wanted. Then his ex-girlfriend messaged me. What I learned about reading people early.
A man I was seeing sent me a document about what he wants in a connection. It was about 20 pages long. Freaky.
He was generous. He bought me a bunch of stuff, including the stereo in my car, a purse and perfume, which was nice. Then his ex-girlfriend messaged me and asked to meet up, and I got to see the messages he had sent her. They did not match what he had told me.
People be crazy. But a car stereo, a purse and perfume, so who is complaining really? Here is what I took from it.
What I would tell you
- Read the long message. When someone writes 20 pages about what they want, believe them. It tells you more than any profile.
- A gift is a gift. It does not buy anything else, and you owe nothing for it.
- If an ex reaches out, you choose whether to answer. If you meet, meet somewhere public, in daylight, and tell a friend.
- When the stories do not match, you do not need to work out which one is true. You can just leave.