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Begin with what you want.


Joining is free and takes one choice. Tell us which side you are on, sign in, and your profile starts from there.

I am

Any gender, either side. Who you are looking for is its own question. You can change sides once.

Rather we wrote your profile for you? Founding members get it done properly.

Omxus is how Dateable signs you in: an email and a password, or a passkey. Your sign-in stays on Omxus; your profile stays on Dateable.

Members are 18 or over. By joining you agree to the terms and the community rules.

A woman in profile against a blush wall, eyes closed, fingertips under her chin, small gold hoops in her ear

After you sign in

Your profile, one page at a time

The basics

A display name, your city and your date of birth. Members see your age. Nobody sees the date.

Your photos

Up to twelve public and twelve private. The first public photo shows your face. Each one is reviewed before anyone else sees it, and marked for quality.

You are rated

Everyone is rated on how often and how fully they reply, and on photo quality. Good ratings put you at the top of search. How ratings work

Your words

A headline, a few lines about you, and what you offer or what you are looking for. Say it plainly. That is the point of this place.

Yours to control

You decide who sees you

Private photos stay private until you grant someone access, and you can take it back. Block or report anyone with one press. Pause your profile to disappear without losing a thing.

Verified

A live selfie, matched to your photos by a person.

Private

Albums open only to the people you choose.

Reported

Reports and blocks, one press away.

Yours

Delete your account and your data goes within 30 days.

Good to know

What it costs

Free for everyone, every feature: messages, private albums and the Board. No credits, no subscription.

To browse, finish your profile: one photo, three profile details and an about of 50 characters or more. Then message anyone. Verify to apply to invitations on the Board or post your own.

Before you start

Pick a first photo where your face is clear and the light is kind. Think of one sentence about what you want. Everything else can wait for a quiet evening.

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