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Boundaries and consent

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Boundaries and consent

Why you wait when your date has had too much to drink

Someone too intoxicated to choose cannot consent. Your own drinking is no defence. Learn what the law says and how to help them safely.

Two people on a date
Boundaries and consent

What counts as a clear yes: a consent checklist

A clear yes is freely given, sober, specific and still current. You need it at the start, and again when things change.