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Ending things
What to say when they offer more to make you stay
If you have decided, more money changes nothing. Say so plainly and end it cleanly. An offer at the ending shows the money was not the problem.
Ending things
How to wind down an allowance when you end things
Name the final payment date in writing, honour it, and keep promises already made. Do not attach conditions or use money to delay the end.