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First dates
Plan, dress for and enjoy a first meeting.
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First dates
What to say when a date pushes for more than you agreed
Say no once, clearly. You do not owe your date sex, drinks, or time. If they ask again after you have said no, leave.

First dates
Who pays on a first sugar date?
The generous member pays for the date they planned. Support is something you agree on together later, not something to negotiate now.