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How to tell early whether a match will treat you well
Say no to something small and watch the reply. It predicts how they will handle your boundaries in a real relationship.

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What attractive members check before they say yes to you
Attractive members screen for safety and respect before agreeing to meet. Show you're verified, genuine and respectful, and you get more yeses.