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Money and gifts
Allowances, gifts and the practical side, handled without awkwardness.
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Money and gifts
How to work out what support you need before you ask
Work from your own numbers: list fixed costs, pick one or two goals, calculate the gap. A figure you can defend is easier to say out loud.
Money and gifts
Should you put your arrangement in a written contract?
No. A short message recapping the practical terms is enough. A formal contract makes the relationship read like a deal rather than something both of you chose.