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Privacy and discretion

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Privacy and discretion

What to say when a match has looked you up online

A quick online check is normal and sensible. Digging into your family or work is not. Here is how to name the boundary and set a line if it happens.

Two people on a date
Privacy and discretion

What to say when a partner wants your passwords or phone

Say no, kindly and without debate. Your phone is private, the same as theirs. Monitoring and control are warning signs of abuse.