DateableFor sugar daddies and sugar mommies
A sugar daddy website for people who say what they offer
On Dateable you join, verify, browse and message free. You state what you offer in your own words, and the people who reply already know it.
Members are 18 or over. Any gender joins on either side.
Who it is for
Adults who provide, and want it to be clear
On Dateable a sugar daddy or sugar mommy is called a generous member: the person who provides dinners, travel, mentoring or support inside a relationship both people chose. You want company you enjoy, and you would rather agree on the shape of it early than find out later.
Any gender fits this side. Who you want to meet is a separate choice. You can change side once.
Generosity on Dateable is gifts, experiences and support. It never buys sex or time. The community rules say so.
How it works for you
Five steps from profile to first date
Join
Pick the generous side and write what you offer. Free.
Verify
A live selfie in a random pose, checked by a person. Free.
Browse
Search, filter and favourite. Free.
Open a conversation
Write first, free, once your profile is complete.
Meet
Somewhere public, at a time you both agreed.
Your profile
Say what you offer, without a price tag
Your profile has a headline, an about section and a box for what you offer. Write the dates you like to plan, how often you are free and what kind of support you have in mind. Income and net worth bands are optional.
A plain line works: "Free most Thursday evenings. I like long dinners, galleries and the odd weekend away. I would like to mentor someone starting out in business."
The Verified badge, with its month, tells members your photos are you. People reply to a profile they can trust.
The Board
Post the date, choose your guest
Post an invitation: the occasion, the city, the day and what you offer. Verified members apply with a short note. You shortlist, decline with a kind fixed message, and accept one guest per place. A private conversation opens and your guest confirms within 48 hours.
Only the accepted guest sees the venue name. A first meeting is never at a private home or a hotel room.
Gallery opening, plus one
Verified member, Sydney
An example of the shape of a listing, not a real one.
What to expect
The first weeks, plainly
Free, every feature
Joining, verifying, browsing, messages and the Board are free. No credits, no subscription.
We stay out of the money
Dateable never holds, moves or takes a cut of money between members. What you give is between the two of you.
Expect questions
A good match asks how often, what kind of dates and what support looks like. Answer plainly; it saves you both time.
Expect to be screened
Members read your profile before they reply. Reliability counts for more than the size of an offer.
Limits are theirs
Generosity never buys anything they did not agree to. Respect a no the first time.
Scammers target you too
Never send money to someone you have not met in person, whatever the reason given.
Read first
Guides for sugar daddies
Be reliable, say plainly what you offer, respect limits, keep things private and give well.
Say what you offer. Meet people who already know it.