DateableFor sugar babies
A sugar baby website that starts with your terms
Dateable is free for sugar babies: your profile, photos, verification, messages and the Board cost nothing. You say what you want before anyone meets you, and you decide who sees you and how far it goes.
Members are 18 or over. Any gender joins on either side.
Who it is for
Adults who want dating with the expectations said out loud
On Dateable a sugar baby is called an attractive member. That is the person who is courted: someone who wants dinners, travel, mentoring or support inside a relationship both people chose, and who would rather say so at the start than guess.
Any gender fits this side. Who you want to meet is a separate choice. You can change side once if you picked the wrong one.
Dateable is dating. It is never a place to sell sex or time for money. The community rules say so, and report is one press away.
How it works for you
Five steps, all free
Join
Pick the attractive side, add a photo, a headline and an about of at least 50 characters.
Verify
A live selfie in a pose the app picks. A person compares it with your photos.
Look around
Search, filter and favourite. See who saved you.
Talk
Message anyone once your profile is complete. Raise expectations early.
Meet
Somewhere public, with your own way home.
Your control
Who sees you, who reaches you
Every photo is reviewed before anyone sees it, and hidden file data such as where it was taken is stripped on upload. Your age shows; your date of birth never does.
Keep up to 12 photos in a private album and grant or take back access one member at a time. Block someone and they never see you again: not in search, not on the Board, not in messages. Report reaches a person.
Pause your profile to disappear from view, or delete your account and your profile, photos and messages are gone within 30 days.
The Board
Apply for the dates you want
Generous members post invitations: the occasion, the city, the day and what they offer. You read the host's profile, then apply with a short note. The host accepts one guest per place, and a private conversation opens between you.
The venue name shows only to the accepted guest. A listing never asks a guest for money and never sets a private home or hotel room as the first meeting place.
Long lunch by the water
Verified member, Melbourne
An example of the shape of a listing, not a real one.
What to expect
The first weeks, plainly
You pay nothing
Dateable is free for everyone, both sides. No credits, no subscription, no fee to read a message.
Nobody charges you a fee
Dateable never holds or releases money between members. Anyone asking you for a fee, a gift card or a "loyalty" payment first is running a scam. Report them.
Talk before you meet
Say how often you would like to meet, what kind of dates suit you and what support means to you. Hear their side too.
Meet in public
A hotel bar, not the room. Tell a friend where you will be and get yourself home.
Your limits hold
Generosity never buys anything you did not agree to. You can say no, and you can end it at any point.
Not every match fits
Some conversations go nowhere. Close them kindly and keep your standards.
Read first
Guides for sugar babies
Set your standards, screen every match, agree support that keeps you independent and meet safely every time.
Free, both sides. Your terms from the first message.